Poniżej kilka cytatów, żeby mama nie zapomniała o czym czytała:
Niektórzy rodzice nie potrzebują czytać żadnych książek by być wspaniałymi przewodnikami życia dla swoich pociech. Niestety, a może stety Ty wybrałeś sobie mnie na mamę a ja ze swoją ciągłą potrzebą doskonalenia siebie w tej roli wciąż czytam, czytam i czytam i wciąż wydaje mi się, że za wiele w tym temacie nie wiem :) ...
"Księga rodzicielstwa bliskości": William Sears, Martha Sears
"Księga rodzicielstwa bliskości": William Sears, Martha Sears
"Każdego dnia powiedz sobie, że tego czego Twoje dziecko najbardziej potrzebuje to szczęśliwa, wypoczęta matka".
"Dziecko ma przejść przez fazę zdrowej zależności po to, aby potem stać się bezpiecznie niezależne.
"Twoje dziecko nie porównuje Ciebie z innymi matkami. Dla niego Ty jesteś najlepsza".
"Wczesna bliskość sprzyja późniejszej niezależności".
"Nie pozwól aby technika oddaliła Cię od Twojego dziecka".
"Dom Twojego nowonarodzonego dziecka jest w Twoich ramionach a nie tylko obok Twojego łóżka".
"Noszenie uczy dzieci o świecie". "Noszone dzieci mają bliższy kontakt ze swoimi matkami".
"Postrzegaj płacz dziecka jako komunikację, a nie manipulację".
"Dzieci dzielące sen z rodzicami wspaniale się rozwijają, co znaczy, że nie tylko robią się coraz większe, ale także osiągają pełen potencjał fizyczny, emocjonalny i intelektualny". "Dzielenie snu pozwala trwać więzi, którą rodzice budują w ciągu dnia.
"Jeśli coś nie działa, to znaczy, że dziecko nie jest gotowe".
"Dawaj swojemu dziecku to co ono potrzebuje, a nie to co ono chce"
The Wonder Weeks. How to Stimulate Your Baby's Mental Development and Help Him Turn His 10 Predictable, Great, Fussy Phases Into Magical Leaps Forward:Hetty van de Rijt
"Watching their babies grow is, for many parents, one of the most interesting and rewarding experiences of their lives".
"At times life with baby can be very trying experience. Inexplicable crying bouts and fussy periods are likely to drive both mother and father to despertion, as they Wonder what's wrong with their little tike and try every trick to soothe him or coax him to happiness, to no avail.
CRYING AND CLINGING CAN SIMPLY MEAN HE IS GROWING"
These fussy periods are usually acommpanied by the three C's: Clinginess, Crankiness and Crying".
"Babies all undergo fussy phases at around the same ages"
"It is hardly surprising when you think of the numer of changes that your baby has to go through in just the first 20 months of life, that he should ocasinally feel out of sorts. Growing up is hard work!"
"At times life with baby can be very trying experience. Inexplicable crying bouts and fussy periods are likely to drive both mother and father to despertion, as they Wonder what's wrong with their little tike and try every trick to soothe him or coax him to happiness, to no avail.
CRYING AND CLINGING CAN SIMPLY MEAN HE IS GROWING"
These fussy periods are usually acommpanied by the three C's: Clinginess, Crankiness and Crying".
"Babies all undergo fussy phases at around the same ages"
"It is hardly surprising when you think of the numer of changes that your baby has to go through in just the first 20 months of life, that he should ocasinally feel out of sorts. Growing up is hard work!"
How babies think: Alison Gopnik, Andrew Meltzoff, Patrick Kuhl
"Raising children is an intrinsically difficult and uncertain job in ways that science can't really address. For most of us parents there is literally nothing more important that the well-being of our children. There are not many things we could imagine giving our lives for, but we could give our lives for them. And in a less melodramatic way, of course, we do give our lives for them. For fifteen or twenty years our everyday energy, our individual liberty, our income our attention, our concern are all devoted to our children. There is nothing else in human experience to match it."
"Parents egocentrically tend to think that they are the deciding factors in their children's lives. But for a two-years old an older brother or sister may actually be a more enthralling examplar of human nature".
"... childhood is the time, when we learn most and when our brains as well as our minds are most open to new experience".
"Babies and young children are perpetually exploring and experimenting, testing out new theories and changing old theories when they learn something new. Although the proces doesn't stop in adulthood, it certainly slows down."
"... childhood is the time, when we learn most and when our brains as well as our minds are most open to new experience".
"Babies and young children are perpetually exploring and experimenting, testing out new theories and changing old theories when they learn something new. Although the proces doesn't stop in adulthood, it certainly slows down."
Why Love matters: How Affection Shapes a baby's Brain (Sue Gerhardt)
"The baby cannot wait because the baby has no concept of time and therefore no capacity to anticpate needs being met in 10 minutes time. When parents respond to the baby's signals, they are participating in many important biological processes. They are helping to baby's nervous system to mature in such a way that it doesn't get overstressed."
"Well managed babies come to expect a world that is responsive to feelings and helps to bring intense states back to comfortable level..."
"Early experience has a great impact on the baby's physiological system, because the are so unformed and delicate".
.".. even the most difficult and irratable babies do fine with responsive parents who adopt to their needs."
"Babies come into the world with a need for social interaction to help develop and organise their brains. If they don't get enough empathic, attuned attention - in other words if they don't have a parent who is interested in them and reacting positively to them - then important parts of the brains simpy will not develop as well".
The baby in the mirror (Charles Fernyhough)
"Parents have psychological baggage from their own upbringing that will influence how the approach being parents themselves." - osobiście się z tym stwierdzeniem nie zgadzam...
"Piaget famously characterised children as little scientist, constantly constructing new theories about how the world works and testing them out in action".
"The psychologist Katherine Nelson and Robyn Fivush have shown that children get involved in cnversations about past events from soon after their second birthdays, and gradually take on ever-grater responsibility for joint storytelling about the past. Furthermore parents willingness or skill in supporting these dialogues has been shown to have a big effect on children's developing storytelling abilites".
The Fussy Baby Book (
"You have been blessed with an above-average child, and I need above-average parenting."
"Attachement parenting begins with giving the infant roots, then helps him develop the wings to become independent and ultimately gives him the tools to become a solid and secure person."
"Structuring your child's einvironment requries that you have mastered the first three building blocks of discipline: being connected to your child; knowing your child; and being able to walk in your child's shoes."
"High-need children push buttons that reveal pleasent and unpleasent scenes from our childhood"
"High-need children whose behaviour is channelled appropriately may be the leaders of the future. In fact many people who have contributed positively to socjety were once high-need children whose behaviour was gently shaped by wise and sensitive parents".
"Temperament describes the basic emotional wiring of your baby. How your baby expresses his unique wiring through his personality. What kind of person your child becomes depends on his inborn temperament (nature) and your response to it (nurture). Temperament is not good or bad ; it is simply the way your baby is".
"Responding aproppriately to your baby's cry is the first and one of the most difficult of many communication challenges you will face as a mother".
The no-cry sleep solution (Elizabeth Pantley)
"Responding aproppriately to your baby's cry is the first and one of the most difficult of many communication challenges you will face as a mother".
The no-cry sleep solution (Elizabeth Pantley)
The no-cry nap solution (Elizabeth Pantley)
You are Your Child's First Teacher (Rahima Baldwin Dancy)
"Children have natural artistic ability that can easily go undeveloped or become stifled by inappropriate activities."
Raising our children, raising ourselves (Naomi Aldort)
Unconditional Parenting (Alfie Kohn)
Playful Parenting (Lawrence J Cohen)
For adults, play means leisure, but for children, play is more like their job. Unlike many of us adults they usually love their work and seldom want a day off. Play is also children's main way of communicating, of experimenting and of learning."
Raising Boys: Why Boys are Different - and How to Help Them Become Happy and Well-Balanced Men Paperback (Steve Biddulph)
The Artist's Way for Parents: Raising Creative Children
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